Zita's Little World

Just a random series of thoughts that run through my head.

Friday, October 28, 2005

What's in a name?

Random fun


Zita
It's much more by sensations than by words that love manifests itself in you. If you don't always know how to show your feelings, being sometimes too shy or taciturn to do so, you're nevertheless eager for tender, warm, and sensual affection.

When you love, you feel the visceral urge to melt with the other one and form a oneness with your loved one. Love is glorified by you; it can only be the outcome of all your ideas - abnegation, sacrifices, beauty, elevation, but also disillusionments.

With you, sentiments are rarely simple. Love, mysticism, extreme devotion or secret masochism - all this can exist and coexist. And very clever is the one who can manage to understand you without making you lose your charm, to support you without crushing you, to counsel you without hurting you, and to bring you all this ambience of understanding and complicity which you need.

If you are not always a perfect spouse, you are generally a delicious date owing to the tenderness and poetry which you know how to create. This romantic mark is one of your most attaching qualities, but also a trap when you do not find in your partner the man capable of responding to your aspirations.

You are always on the lookout for a partner capable of vibrating at your dreams, sharing your imaginations, and participating in all the marvelous which inhabits you. But you also want him to be more realistic than you are and capable of taking care of you - on condition, however, that he does not hamper you.

Living, day after day, with the chosen of your heart and making sure that your love doesn't take on a wrinkle, that's your most earnest desire. It's why you hate loneliness. You need so much to give and to receive tenderness!

A few thoughts

I used to think that love was only pure and true if it was mutual. Now, as I grow older, I realize that this isn't the case. Love- in it's many shades and textures- isn't always reciprocated. And if it is reciprocated, it isn't always returned in the same form or with the same meaning. You can love someone who will never understand the depth of truth of your emotions. The true gift of love is when the stars align and the feelings you have a mutual. It is a rare phenomenon.

Also, women should wear clothes that fits them- clothes that reveal every little gross roll is not hot. That's right ladies. NOT HOT! While we're at it, dude- too much makeup is also not hot. And throwing yourself at guys who are obviously not into you- NOT HOT. Man, my gender drives me beserk sometimes- or at least, the crazy elements of my gender drive me crazy sometimes

Finally, a few lyrics. Ani Difranco's As Is- it's like she read my mind.

you can't hide
behind social graces
so don't try
to be all touchy feely
cuz you lie
in my face of all places
but I got no
problem with that really
what bugs me
is that you believe what you're saying
what bothers me
is that you don't know how you feel
what scares me
is that while you're telling me stories
you actually
believe that they are real
I get no illusions about you
guess what
I never did
when I said
when I said I'll take it
I meant
I meant as is
just give up
and admit you're as asshole
you would be
in some good companyand I think you'd find
that your friends would forgive you
or maybe I
am just speaking for me
when I look around
I think this, this is good enough
and I try to laugh
at whatever life brings
cuz when I look down
I just miss all the good stuff
and when I look up
I just trip over things
i've got no illusions about you
guess what
I never did
when I say
when I say i'lll take it
I mean
I mean as is